While reading the O’Reilly book Mind Performance Hacks Tips and Tools for Overclocking your Brain I googled (don’t you love all of the TV ads that are using Google?) the Cognitive distortions phrase and surfed over to Wikipedia for the following Top Ten list. I know that I am guilty of having thought every single one of these. How about you?
1. All-or-nothing thinking – thinking of things in absolute terms, like “always”, “every” or “never”. Few aspects of human behavior are so absolute. (See false dilemma).
2. Overgeneralization – taking isolated cases and using them to make wide, usually self-deprecating generalizations. (See hasty generalization).
3. Mental filter – Focusing exclusively on certain, usually negative or upsetting, aspects of something while ignoring the rest, like a tiny imperfection in a piece of clothing. (See misleading vividness).
4. Disqualifying the positive – continually “shooting down” positive experiences for arbitrary, ad hoc reasons. (See special pleading).
5. Jumping to conclusions – assuming something negative where there is actually no evidence to support it. Two specific subtypes are also identified:
* Mind reading – assuming the intentions of others
* Fortune telling – guessing that things will turn out badly. (See slippery slope).
6. Magnification and Minimization – exaggerating negatives and understating positives. Often the positive characteristics of other people are exaggerated and negatives understated. There is one subtype of magnification:
* Catastrophizing – focusing on the worst possible outcome, however unlikely, or thinking that a situation is unbearable or impossible when it is really just uncomfortable.
7. Emotional reasoning – making decisions and arguments based on how you feel rather than objective reality. (See appeal to consequences).
8. Making should statements – concentrating on what you think “should” or ought to be rather than the actual situation you are faced with, or having rigid rules which you think should always apply no matter what the circumstances are. (See wishful thinking).
9. Labelling – related to overgeneralization, explaining by naming. Rather than describing the specific behavior, you assign a label to someone or yourself that puts them in absolute and unalterable terms.
10. Personalization (or attribution) – Assuming you or others directly caused things when that may not have been the case. (See illusion of control). When applied to others this is an example of blame